How to Grow in Leadership and Communication

Jan 15, 2020 | 0 comments

Years ago one of my colleagues in China asked me about a book I had read the year before and for the life of me, I could not recall anything of substance. What?!

As soon as I finished a book, I moved on to the next one without building in any reflecting time. So, I chose a pretty notebook and started to write down a short blurb for each book I read. Sometimes my blurbs are brief summaries; other times, I write down what I want to remember from a book.

Recently I was asked what Iโ€™ve read in the last several years related to leadership and communication. I love nonfiction, so it’s not surprising my list was long-ish, almost too long for one post. But who doesnโ€™t love a good list? For your sake, I disciplined myself not to say too much about any one book. If youโ€™d like to know more, just ask!


Without further ado, here are the 26 books that I read in the last five years related to leadership and communication:

1. Me, Myself, and Bob: A True Story About Dreams, God, and Talking Vegetables by Phil Vischer โ€” โ€œThis is a story of dreaming big and working hard, of spectacular success and breathtaking failure, of shouted questions, and, at long last, whispered answers.โ€

2. Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook: How to Tell Your Story in a Noisy Social World by Gary Vaynerchuk โ€” โ€œThanks to massive change and proliferation in social media platforms, the winning combination of jabs and right hooks is different now.โ€

3. Contagious: Why Things Catch On by Jonah Berger โ€” Berger reveals the โ€œscience behind word-of-mouth and social transmission.โ€

4. slide:ology: The Art and Science of Creating Great Presentations by Nancy Duarte

5. Resonate: Present Visual Stories that Transform Audiences by Nancy Duarte โ€” The power in a story of going back and forth between what is and what could be.

6. Supersurvivors: The Surprising Link Between Suffering and Success by Lee Daniel Kravetz and David B. Feldman

7.ย Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Wellย by Douglas Stone and Shalia Heen โ€” Iโ€™ve realized I have so much I want to say about this book that Iโ€™ll do a separate post. So good!

8. With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God by Sky Jethani โ€” An absolute must read. The end.

9.ย The Weekly Coaching Conversation: A Business Fable about Taking Your Teamโ€™s Performance and Your Career to the Next Levelย byย Brian Souza โ€” Not my fave read, but a good reminder as a leader to be intentional with those I work with.

10. Sticking Points: How to Get 4 Generations Working Together in the 12 Places They Come Apart by Haydn Shaw โ€” So many โ€œah-ha!โ€ moments reading this!

11. David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants by Malcolm Gladwell โ€” This book offers โ€œa new interpretation of what it means to be discriminated against, suffer from a disability, lose a parent, attend a mediocre school, or endure any number of other apparent setbacks.โ€

12. Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success by Adam Grant โ€” โ€œThere are three broad styles of interpersonal dealing: taking, matching, and giving. Hereโ€™s the counter-intuitive part. If we look at the most successful peopleโ€”the happiest, the most likely to be promoted, etcโ€”they are generally givers, and if we look at the least successful, they too often tend to be givers.โ€

13.ย Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Lessย byย Greg McKeown โ€” โ€œThe Way of the Essentialist isnโ€™t about getting more done in less time. Itโ€™s about gettingย only the right things done.โ€

14. The Emotionally Healthy Leader: How Transforming Your Inner Life Will Deeply Transform Your Church, Team, and the World by Peter Scazzero โ€” Highly recommend! โ€œScazzero shows leaders how to develop a deep, inner life with Christ, examining its profound implications for surviving stress, planning and decision making, building teams, creating healthy culture, influencing others, and more.โ€

15. Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Donโ€™t by Simon Sinek

16. Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter by Liz Wiseman and Greg McKeown โ€” โ€œIn analyzing data from more than 150 leaders, Wiseman has identified five disciplines that distinguish Multipliers from Diminishers.โ€

17. Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade by Robert B. Cialdini

18. The Advantage: Why Organizational Health Trumps Everything Else In Business by Patrick Lencioni โ€” An absolute must read! Iโ€™m using this book with the Connection Group Facilitators this fall.

19. Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World by Adam Grant

20. Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant

21. Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life by Susan David

22. The 4 Disciplines of Execution: Achieving Your Wildly Important Goals by Sean Covey, Jim Huling, and Chris McChesney โ€” Absolute must read.

23.ย Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted Worldย by Cal Newport โ€” Excellent. So good on understanding how the brain works and the importance of building in time for deep work. I have been frustrated that Iโ€™m stuck doing so much shallow work; this book was a big help to bring change.

24.ย The Power of Healthy Tension: Overcome Chronic Issues and Conflicting Valuesย by Tim Arnold โ€” My new fave book; I love it so much I have worked in these ideas into talks Iโ€™m giving at writers groups around Denver, a presentation I made in Germany to cross-cultural workers, and a keynote address Iโ€™ll give in February at a cross-cultural conference to mainly those who send people overseas. Suffice it to say, the impact this book has had on my thinking and understanding of situations that are a part of life is far and wide. If you get with a two-foot radius of me, youโ€™re gonna hear about this book!

25. 5 Voices: How to Communicate Effectively with Everyone You Lead by Jeremie Kubicek and Steve Cockram โ€” Here is an Instagram post I wrote about this book.

26. The Five Most Important Questions You Will Ever Ask About Your Organization by Peter Drucker

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Because we have started a new decade, I recently did a reflection of my reading the last decade, you can see it here. What are some of your must-reads for communication or leadership?


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Amy Young

Life enthusiast. Author. Sports lover. Jesus follower. Supporting cross-cultural work.

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